Wedding Issues with my (bride) Family... please help?

Just be sure that you and your fiancee have complete peace about getting married. Sometimes, when a person is having struggles like you're having with family, getting the pastor, etc...those can all be red flags. I can say that if there are problems now (eg: liberal vs. conservative, etc...) then those problems will not disappear when the two of you are married. They will still be there and remember the Bible tells us that couples are not to be unequally yoked, and that includes the spiritual beliefs and doctrine of each person.